"one of your lifelong projects is to learn the art of keeping proper boundaries. that doesn't always come easy for you. in your subconscious mind you're often thinking, 'i can't figure out where i leave off and everyone else begins.' having sounded this warning, though, i'll now advise you to completely surrender to the urge to merge, at least temporarily. blend, connect, and commune with abandon. write this declaration by sculptor malvina hoffman on your arm: 'my true center is an enormous capacity for falling in love with everything around me.' "ich sag das jede woche, so auch diese: rob brezsny rules.